Have you ever been dining out, and have had "that server"...the one who calls you honey/hun? This particular server will usually ask you what you would like to order with "...and for you hun?" or "How's everything tasting hun?" It makes me cringe! I know it's not intended to annoy me (I hope?) but it does. I have a first name and I also have a nick-name. Neither one of them is hun. My family & friends rarely call me by my first name. My sister gave me a nick-name when I was a