Almost every time a new resident admits we hear familiar statements from family members... "mom & dad made us promise to never move them into a nursing home" or "dad's dream was to be able to retire and grow old up at the lake" and "it was so devastating for mom when we told her she couldn't live alone in her home anymore." These are typically followed by "we realized mom & dad couldn't live on their own anymore when they weren't able to keep up with the house" or "dad could